Tuesday, November 15, 2011

happily ever after

It happened, when I wasn’t looking, when my head was turned and my attention distracted chasing my version of happily ever after.

Life happened, unfolding organically written through seemingly ordinary days filled with nothing much that looked remotely extraordinary.
I didn’t get my happily ever according to me, but happily ever after found me nonetheless, not by anything I did, but by everything I didn’t do.

It was through equal parts good and equal parts trial that were shaken and stirred together, that I found everything I wasn’t looking for, none of what I wanted, but everything I needed. 
I found my happily ever after, in Jesus and Jesus alone.  He is my lifeline, the source of my joy, the strength of my peace, my Savior, my everything, my happily ever after.

My days have already been written, the details mapped out, my tomorrow’s in His hands.
This life of mine is not about me making a name for myself, how many people I lead to Christ or how many service hours I log.

What matters is living a life that is pleasing to God and glorifying Him while I walk this earth.  How I love the people he places in my path and honoring Him on the roads I travel because of what He did at the Cross for me.
It is about knowing that there is a life after this one, my eternal life where I will see Jesus face, a place where there will be no more tears and no more pain, no more sickness disease or starvation, it is that place where it won’t matter if I ever sell a best-selling novel,  the size of my home or bank account, my job title, the car I drive or how many stadiums seats were filled with people who clamored to hear me speak,  which by the way I have no intentions of ever doing. 

None of it will matter, if I lose my happily ever after along the way.
Matthew 19:21
Jesus said to him. “if you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; and come follow Me.”

Matthew 19:29-30
And everyone who has left house or brothers or sisters or fathers or mother or wife or children or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life.  But many who are first will be last, and the last first.

Mark 8:36
For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?

linking up with Tracy for winsome wednesday.

10 comments:

  1. Hi Kandi - the best place to be is in relationship with Christ. I love how you describe Him as your happily ever after. Nothing can replace Him and without Him, we are nothing. Great post
    God bless
    Tracy

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  2. I love how you put this! I do not want to gain the world and lose my soul. None of this matters if I lose my happily ever after with Jesus. Great post Kandi!

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  3. Kandi, I love this!
    "What matters is living a life that is pleasing to God and glorifying Him while I walk this earth. How I love the people he places in my path and honoring Him on the roads I travel because of what He did at the Cross for me." Amen!

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  4. Oh, how I long for what's eternal... nothing else really matters. Beautiful post Kandi!

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  5. Kandi, I love the way you have said,"I found my happily ever after, in Jesus and Jesus alone. He is my lifeline, the source of my joy, the strength of my peace, my Savior, my everything, my happily ever after." It is true whatever we do should always be pleasing to God and no one else.

    Blessings to you!

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  6. Lovely post Kandi!

    As we come to understand the great plan of happiness, we will radiate, for all the world to see! It is living the gospel of Jesus Christ that is our guarantee of living “happily ever after.” :)

    Blessings and hugs friend! :)
    Denise

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  7. This is such a beautiful reminder of Hope! The hope we have because we know how this story ends!;) I love being romanced by the Creator of the Universe!!!

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  8. Keeping our sight focused on the eternal rather than the temporary isn't always easy, but as you stated Kandi, it's the path to true "happily ever after".

    Great post!

    Have a Blessed Day!

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  9. Glad you commented over at my place so I could find yours. Beautiful words, friend. Pure poetry.

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  10. Jesus is my happy ever after -- I like that. The thing is, humans sometimes put unattainable expectations on us but Jesus doesn't. He created us and us in His image. It will be wonderful when we see His face, won't it?

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